Sometimes you need to remind yourself that you were the one who carried you through the heartache. You are the one who sits with the cold body on the shower floor, and picks it up. You are the one who feeds it, who clothes it, who tucks it into bed, and you should be proud of that. Having the strength to take care of yourself when everyone around you is trying to bleed you dry, that is the strongest thing in the universe.
Life is unfair. you put someone first who puts you second. you study your ass off for a final only to get a C. you give 110% to someone in a relationship who only gives 40%. you’re there for a best friend at 3:00am and the next day they don’t pick up their phone. it seems like you’re giving everyone everything and they’re just walking away with it.
my favorite compliment i’ve gotten at college was from a drunk frat boy who said i had “the body of the girl of his dreams” then paused and held up a hand to stop me from saying anything and continued “…..but the haircut of the boy of my dreams”
Today while having a discussion on the article of banning body mods, I had a mother argue “I don’t want my three year old looking at the f word while at the petting zoo, I guess it’s different after you have kids. I also don’t believe in cussing around kids, I guess I’m old school.”
1. If your three year old is smart enough to read the word fuck, it’s smart enough to not say it if YOU AS THE MOTHER tell him it’s bad.
2. It is your job as a parent to tell your child “right” from “wrong”, it is NOT the worlds job to hide things you find offensive while you and your children are present.
3. It’s not that you don’t believe in cussing around kids. That’s like saying you don’t believe in electricity. You have to believe it. It exists. It happens. You just don’t like it. But that’s just semantics and a pet peeve.
“No matter how good things are, there will always be solitary nights you spend in your bedroom, in a car, or in a party full of your closest friends when it feels like the walls are caving in.”—Dan Campbell (via t0xicfairies)
jeez i would love to order that thing online, but i don’t know what size to order it in because women’s clothing sizes are determined by the alignments of the planets in relation to the fuck you galaxy